Online but also in documentaries and even in books people have claimed that the first same sex kiss on television between women happened in an episode of the TV show ‘L.A. Law’ in 1991 and between men in an episode of ‘Dawson’s Creek’ in 2000.
Others claim TV’s first gay kiss between two men was on an episode of the British soap ‘Eastenders’ broadcast in 1989 and the first lesbian kiss was on TV in 1994 on the British soap ‘Brookside’.
That is not correct.
At first this appears to be a typical case of the American media ignoring that there is a world outside of the United States and that we also have televisions!
Some reporters forget to add “ON AMERICAN TV” when they write about the first this or that. But although the kiss in ‘L.A. Law’ may have been the first kiss(es) between two women on American TV, the one in ‘Dawson’s Creek’ was not the first romantic kiss between men.
Before we continue we must also make a distinction between romantic kisses and non-romantic or platonic kisses.
A romantic kiss involves love and/or passion, a general kiss can be out of friendship, as a joke, etc.
Obviously the first television broadcasting of a serious romantic kiss between people of the same gender is a milestone, it is of huge importance.
While people of the same gender kissing in a comedy, by accident, etc. is a lot less loaded.
What follows are examples of people of the same gender kissing each other on television across the world, I make no distinction between drama (scripted kisses) and real life ones such as in documentaries.
This article is just meant to point out when and where the first same sex kiss was broadcast.
This list is incomplete and a work in progress, I’ll update it whenever I find something new.
Last update; 6th of August 2022.
First some examples of non-romantic kisses.
Although nothing more than a peck, I’d like to make an honourable mention of the moment in 1966 when translator and communications officer Nyota Uhura (Nichelle Nichols) gives Nurse Christine Chapel (Majel Barrett) a welcome kiss, which technically makes it both a same sex and interracial kiss, 2 years before what is often, incorrectly, described as the first interracial kiss on TV, you can read more about that kiss in my article by clicking here.
The earliest same sex kissing broadcast on TV anywhere, as far as I know, was between famous comedians Dean Martin and Jerry Lewis on the show The Colgate Comedy Hour aired on Sunday 8:00 PM February 4th, 1951 on NBC.
There was a lot of kissing going on in their TV shows and movies and although it was platonic and often part of a slapstick joke, their relationship was more than just friends, especially in 1950s America they were showing something rarely portrayed, an intense and loving relationship between two affectionate men who didn’t mind showing it.
As Jerry Lewis himself described it;
“What we had was a love affair, two men that adored one-another, that was the key.” (source)
Perhaps it was an early version of what some today would call a ‘Bromance‘.
But they weren’t the only men kissing on TV in the 1950s.
Famous comedian Sid Caesar deserves a mention here, not just because there was a lot of men kissing each other in his tv show ‘Your show of shows‘, broadcast on April third, 1954 at 9:00 p.m. in the evening (prime time), but also because it’s just very funny;
In 1972 Sammy Davis Jr. planted a kiss on the right cheek of Archie Bunker in the tv show “All in the Family,” which might have been the first kiss between a black and white man on US TV but yes, they were pecks, friendly non-romantic/passionate kisses.
On October the 18th 1990 at 8pm, cartoon characters Homer J. Simpson and his secretary Karl kiss in the episode ‘Simpson and Delilah’ of the long running show ‘The Simpsons’.
Which although in a cartoon is still two men kissing on US TV during ‘Prime time’.
In the show ‘Will & Grace’, characters Will and Jack kiss live on national television, but the kiss is there to make a point, not out of romance, although it is quite passionate.
However the kiss was broadcast at 9PM on the 22nd of February 2000 (also during prime time), three months before the famous May 24th same sex kiss in ‘Dawson’s Creek’.
Now onto the romantic, passionate and other same-sex kisses.
It is very possible that movies with same sex kisses, passionate or otherwise, were broadcast before these shows were shown.
As I’ll show at the end of this article, cinema beat TV to it when it comes to most thing, especially in the pre-code era.
But until I happen to find out that one of these movies was indeed broadcast on TV before any of these other kisses that I mention here, we can’t be sure.
Let’s get one contender for the first kiss between two men that was more than just a peck out of the way first.
On the 6th of December 1998 at 8:30 the TV show ‘That ’70s Show’ aired an episode that showed a passionate kiss between two young men.
Although one of the men was gay and the other not and it was a one-sided unwelcome attempt, it technically was a (half) passionate kiss between two men broadcast in the US during Prime Time in the US.
This could be considered the first if there wasn’t an earlier one in 1970, more about that one at the end of this article.
Another, much stronger contender is the groundbreaking documentary ‘Tongues Untied‘, a documentary made by Marlon T. Riggs about black gay men in the United States, about their love, relationships, representation but also how they’re excluded, discriminated against and often felt ostracized in both black and white society.
It is a frank and honest story that shows men kissing passionately and romantically.
It caused a national controversy in the US, even before it was broadcast.
But on July 16th, 1991, at 10pm, it was aired and today it’s considered a very important documentary, also because it was aired in the middle of the AIDS pandemic.
Not only was this a romantic/passionate gay kiss that was broadcast, it was an important kiss in more ways than one.
The first romantic kiss between two women on an US television show was broadcast in an episode of NBC’s ‘L.A. Law’ in 1991, on February 7th at 10PM, which technically is Prime Time in the U.S.A., this one is often lauded as THE first one on TV, it wasn’t, and it perhaps wasn’t even the first on on American television.
At 8pm, on January 15th 1990, a year earlier, in the television show ’21 Jump Street’. Undercover officer Judy Hoffs (played by Holly Robinson Peete) is kissed by suspect Megan Bennet (played by Katy Boyer) in the episode ‘Change of Heart‘.
The kiss was filmed in extreme close up, so you can’t quite see the lips touch, but it is clearly a passionate kiss between two women, one of whom is a lesbian while the other accepts the kiss even though later claiming she didn’t to her colleague.
It’s a groundbreaking episode, it’s all about normalising homosexuality, tries to explain that its perfectly normal to a very young audience and the kiss is an important part of the plot, not just a quick smooch to get publicity or tease the viewers.
Even if we think this kiss isn’t valid, we can be sure that it would have upset certain viewers and personally I think it deserves more credit than the one in L.A. Law.
You can see the whole episode by clicking here, the kiss is at 21:44.
A former contender for the very first same sex kiss between two women broadcast on TV in the UK was in a series called ‘Second City Firsts, in an episode titled ‘Girl’ which aired on the 25th of February, 1974.
It started at 21.25, only 25 minutes after the watershed and showed a kiss between Alison Steadman and Myra Frances.
But there was an earlier one.
A few days earlier, during the first episode of Australian soap ‘The Box’ , broadcast on the 11th of February at 9pm 1974 (which is Prime Time in Australia), two women kissed and for a long time this was considered to be TV’s first ever gay kiss but it wasn’t, it also wasn’t the fist same sex kiss on Australian TV.
On October 2nd 1973, at 22.30, TV programme ‘Whicker’s World‘ presented by Alan Whicker aired an episode on British network ITV called Whicker Way Out West: The Lord Is My Shepherd and He Knows I’m Gay about a gay wedding in San Diego and investigates the rise of the Gay Liberation movement in the U.S.A..
The episode shows the traditional wedding between Hotel clerk Joseph Brown and Ed Brendan, a serving chief petty officer in the US Navy, who crown the ceremony with a very passionate kiss.
But in 1972, also on Australian TV Peter de Waal and Peter Bonsall-Boone, a same sex couple, shared a brief kiss in ABC documentary series ‘Chequerboard’ (the couple stayed together for 50 years but sadly Peter died before they were allowed to get married).
On the 31st of January 1972 West-Germany broadcast it’s first gay kiss in a film titled “Nicht der Homosexuelle ist pervers, sondern die Situation, in der er lebt” (It Is Not the Homosexual Who Is Perverse, But the Society in Which He Lives) ;
But none of the kisses mentioned above are the first passionate kisses between men or women on TV.
On August 6th 1970 at 21.10 the BBC broadcast Christopher Marlowe‘s play ‘Edward II‘, in this adaption Sir Ian McKellen passionately kissed James Laurenson, only 3 years after homosexuality had been (partially) decriminalised in the UK.
This play was also shown on American TV on Ed-TV as part of a CBS broadcast on September 27th 1975 for the first time but repeated on other channels afterwards.
According to the review below it was broadcast on October 4th including the love scene at, 5, 6 and 9PM (all prime time).
But technically that makes this the first romantic kiss between two men on US TV, beating all other contenders by quite a few years.
In a more recent interview McKellen described it as passionate, which it of course clearly was, mentions that it had been performed in the theatre with great success.
He didn’t remember anyone complaining but people have told him how grateful they were and how important it was for them.
This play was advertised with nearly full page ads in the New York Times and reviewed in detail;
However, Dutch television had two gay men kissing passionately several times in a documentary called ‘Portret van een homofiel’ that was aired on April the 26th, 1970 at a quarter past 10 in the evening, making it the first passionate non-acted kiss between two homosexual men on TV, but it too was not the first same sex kiss.
You can see the full documentary (in Dutch) by clicking here.
In 1968 British television broadcast two same sex kisses between actors.
On October 20th, at 20 minutes past 10 in the evening, Granada Television (today ITV) broadcast episode ‘Caligula‘ from the series ‘The Caesars, a huge Roman themed costume drama.
In the scene emperor Caligula (played by Ralph Bates) gives Lepidus (played by Sean Arnold) a long passionate kiss on the mouth.
According to some Roman sources the two men had an affair.
You can watch the episode here on youtube.
This is makes it the first passionate kiss between two men on television anywhere.
In 1968 the BBC also broadcast an adaptation of Emile Zola’s ‘Nana‘ which was broadcast on BBC 2, starting at 21:55 (although some later episodes would be broadcast pre watershed) starring Katherine Schofield, the first episode aired on September 5th.
In ‘Prospero‘, the newspaper for retired BBC Pension Scheme members (issue 4, August 2021) the director of this drama John Davies claimed that as well as showing a woman’s breasts it also contained a scene of Nana, dressed in top hat and tails, kissing another woman.
Unfortunately no footage survived and I’m have not (yet) figured out in which episode the kiss happened, but regardless, this makes it the first same-sex kiss on UK TV, so far.
The show was also broadcast in Australia in 1969, on Dutch TV in 1970 and in the USA in 1973, making it likely to be the first same sex being aired in these countries and the many other countries where it was also aired!
However, without seeing the episode it is really difficult to judge what kind of kiss this was, if it was a romantic kiss between two women or something that’s just a bit of fun, platonic, etc.
(thank you Mr. Stephen Buckley for finding this!)
But the first kiss between two women on television anywhere ever was in 1963 in the Brazilian TV show ‘A Calúnia‘ between Vida Amélia Guedes Alves and Geórgia Gomide.
It was a live theatre-play broadcast in the evening, the show started at 8pm and ended at 10, the kiss was broadcast near the end so it is unclear if this was during ‘prime time’.
This kiss was not a peck on the cheek, a kiss forced by an alien race, a joke or a misunderstanding, it was a full blown gay kiss between two women in love.
The broadcast was based on the 1934 play ‘The Children’s Hour‘ by Lillian Hellman, a dramatic story about two women accused of being gay finding out that they indeed have feelings for each other.
Actress Vida Alves said;
“…The two characters were directors of a school. Then someone spread a rumor that they were lovers… Parents got mad because of it and the school ended up closing. On the day that it was supposed to close, the two actresses looked at eachother in a very tender way and kissed. They, who had no involvement with eachother, realized that they were truly in love.”
This is the first same sex and gay kiss I could find in TV history but because it was broadcast live there is no record of it, not even a photo.
A photo often shared with the claim it is this kiss is actually from the 1931 German movie ‘Mädchen in Uniform‘ (1931).
Some of these kisses were broadcast late in the evening or were seen by a relatively small audience.
For that reason they’re not all equally important.
The first of something always has value, but the first kisses on soaps such as US TV’s ‘Dawson’s Creek’ in 2000 and British TV’s first male gay mouth to mouth kiss on ‘Eastenders’ on the 24th of January 1989 at 19:30 have their own place in history as they reached a huge audience and thus having a bigger impact than some of these other kisses.
Each kiss has to be seen in its own context but also the era it was broadcast in.
A gay kiss on German TV in the 1970s would have had a different impact than one on American TV in the 1990s.
For instance, the kiss on ‘Eastenders’ was seen by millions and broadcast at prime time when AIDS was all over the media, Princess Diana would cause a sensation only days later when hugging a child with AIDS in an American hospital.
The situation surrounding the kiss can make one kiss more important than the other, even if it technically was not the first.
We have to keep this in mind of course but History was being made and those trailblazers who were first deserve to be represented even if their impact has perhaps not as big.
By only telling one story you ignore another, one that deserves to be told.
Credit where credit’s due.
The first passionate interracial kiss that was also a same-sex kiss broadcast on TV that I could find was the one between Willie Jonah and Rayner Bourton in an episode of ‘BBC2 Playhouse’ titled ‘The Mind Beyond: The Man with the Power’, broadcast on BBC 2 on November 3, 1976, you can watch it by clicking here.
As I mentioned earlier, Hollywood had same sex kisses decades before television had even been invented and European cinema in some cases went even further.
Here are just a few examples, if any of the following films have been broadcast on TV in the 1950s, 1960s or 1970s, they could change the list above completely.
Unfortunately I’ve not yet been able to prove that they have indeed been broadcast or when they were broadcast.
If you do, let me know.
- Two naked women kiss each other on the mouth on electro-photographic series of pictures taken by Eadweard Muybridge in 1887, although perhaps technically not quite film, still one that belongs on the list.
- Two men kiss passionately in ‘The Life and Deeds of the Immortal Leader Karađorđe‘ (1911)
- Man kisses lots of cowboys on the mouth in ‘Algie The Miner’ (1912)
- Two men kiss in D. W. Griffith’s ‘Intolerance’ (1916).
- Woman in drag kisses another woman in ‘The danger girl’ (1916)
- Interracial kiss between black and white man in D. W. Griffith’s ‘The Greatest Thing in Life’ (1918).
- Two women kiss passionately during prison scene in ‘Manslaughter’ (1922).
- Peter Pan is played by a woman, & is kissed by Wendy’s mother in ‘Peter Pan’ (1924)
- Romantic kiss between two men kiss in ‘Wings’ (1927).
Finally two lists of films with LGBT themes;
List of LGBT-related films pre-1920
List of LGBT-related films of the 1920s
- Martin and Lewis – The Kings of Bromance (Tribute)
- New York Times
- ‘Prospero‘, the newspaper for retired BBC Pension Scheme members
- LGBTQ+ Timeline
- BBC programme index
- The Television & Radio Database
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Another not the first same sex kiss on TV:
Broadcast on Jan 31st 1972 (WDR III, German Television)
“Nicht der Homosexuelle ist pervers, sondern die Situation, in der er lebt”
It’s not exactly a platonic kiss:
I’m sure you can track down the sources.I don’t know if any of the parts from the film were omitted from the original broadcast, but I believe this would have been newsworthy.
Cheers from Germany!
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I got a platonic male to male kiss broadcast on American TV for you from the 50s and it’s not just a peck on the cheek
It’s from a parody of “This is Your Life” on Sid Caesar’s “Your Show of Shows” Apr 3, 1954. Actually there’s two. Sid and Howard Morris at about the 8:09 mark, and the second is Sid and Werner Klemperer at about 8:45.
Although not as romantic and real as some of the other kisses, that absolutely shows men kissing, a lot and thus seems to beat all the other records!
Thank you very much, I’ll update the article asap!
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Israel had a tv show from 1997 called “Florentin” where they had gay kiss and sex on prime time tv. And also another tv show called “short stories about love”, where one of the episodes called “Gotta Have Heart” (also 1997), had a very strong gay sex scene, on prime tv! You should explore all these shows. Not to mention the first Israeli gay movies from the early 80’s, like “Drifting” from 1982 and “Amazing Grace” from 1992, all by director Amos Guttman. Worth noting… 🙂
I just saw Get Smart S1Ep19 1966 with a kiss between Hymie the robot and Maxwell Smart.
I wondered if this was an early, or first, TV M-M kiss which led me to this great page.
I should have remembered the many Dean and Jerry kisses!
Perhaps Hymie deserves an honorable mention.
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Oh that sounds like fun, any tips on where I can see this episode/scene?